Top 10 Questions to Ask Your Wedding DJ – Before You Book

Taking time to talk – no pressure, just honesty

Because great music starts with the right conversation.

Music plays a huge role in your wedding day – it sets the tone, builds emotion, and shapes the energy of the celebration.

But many couples book their DJ without really knowing what to ask. The truth is: a great party starts long before the first song.Here are the 10 most important questions to ask your wedding DJ – and what their answers can tell you. Here are the Top 10 Questions

1. How do you plan the music and timeline with us?

A professional DJ doesn’t just show up with a playlist.Ask how they handle planning – do they offer a pre-call, a moodboard, a planning form?Good DJs listen first and shape the music around your day.

2. Do you take song requests – and respect our “no-go” list?

This might sound obvious, but it’s not always a given.A good DJ respects your preferences, blends your favorite songs naturally into the flow, and avoids anything you absolutely don’t want to hear.

3. How do you handle mixed crowds – different ages or cultures?

Your wedding might bring together family, friends from around the world, and multiple generations.A skilled DJ knows how to connect people through music – without forcing anything or losing the vibe.

4. Do you bring your own equipment?

From speakers to lights and microphones, a professional comes fully prepared.Ask what’s included – especially for the ceremony and outdoor locations.

5. What happens if it rains – or there’s a power issue?

Important for outdoor or destination weddings!A pro DJ will have backup plans, weatherproof options, and possibly even battery-powered gear.

6. Do you speak or moderate – or keep it low-key?

Some DJs love the mic – others prefer to stay in the background.Check what matches your style, and make sure they’re comfortable handling transitions or short announcements if needed.

7. What do you need from us on-site?

Ask about setup time, space, power access, and logistical details.This is especially important for remote venues and destination weddings – the fewer surprises, the better.

8. Do you have experience with international or destination weddings?

A DJ who understands different cultures, languages and logistics is a huge plus.They’ll know what to expect, how to adapt, and how to make your guests feel included.

9. How do you handle last-minute changes?

Weddings never go 100% according to plan – and that’s perfectly fine.The question is: does your DJ stay calm, flexible, and focused when the timeline shifts?

10. How do you build energy if the party starts slow?

The best DJs read the room.They know how to build trust, spark connection and slowly lift the energy – not just blast loud hits.Great music has rhythm. A great DJ knows when to wait – and when to strike.

Final Thoughts about Top 10 Questions

You’re not just hiring someone to play songs –you’re trusting someone to shape the emotional atmosphere of your wedding.

The more open and clear the conversation before the booking, the more relaxed you’ll be on the day itself.

And if you’re looking for a DJ who’s happy to sit down, listen and answer anything you want to ask –I’m right here, no pressure.